Most men think that the art of approaching women is complicated and difficult to learn. However, a lot have been written about this art but, basically, the art of approaching women can be sum up in five (5) simple steps:
- Approach with spontaneity. Being natural is the key. Be relaxed and do not fake your actions. Be spontaneous and act on the spur-of-the -moment. Women are turned off when men approach them and are obviously trying to impress them. You have to have a little aura of mystery around you but not too much so as not to turn them off.
- Approach with subtlety. Be sensitive. Women love to be treated delicately and a guy who is refined in his ways will surely catch their interest. Be a gentleman by moving aside to open doors for a woman or by getting her drink refilled. These actions will surely capture any woman's interest and make you stand out in the crowd.
- Approach with confidence. Be confident but do not overdo it so that your actions will not be mistaken for arrogance. Show confidence in yourself and in what you can do. Women are attracted to men who are sure of themselves and to whom they can depend on.
- Approach with humor. Humor can really do wonders in many ways. You can approach women by telling jokes or a funny story about yourself that will put a smile on their faces and which will definitely earn you a slot beside the woman you are eyeing. Tell a joke or use some of the pick up lines you have read that will surely make women interested in you.
- Approach with the right mind-set. Be positive. Having the right mind-set or attitude before you approach women will also generate the same positive attitude in return.
Whichever way you do it, women will react to you in the way you approach them. One very important thing about the art of approaching women is that you should not be afraid to make the first move to approach a woman or a group of women at all times. Whether you might be rejected or not, you should put that aside as a lesson learned.